Sunday, April 1, 2012

“Try to break my heart, I’ll drive to Arizona”


It is time to get out. This snow is beautiful as it falls on the trees, the forest is the best playground I could ask for, the river is my second home, but it is not enough. The people here drain me to the point of utter mental dehydration. 
I’ve tried, but I just can’t  handle them much longer. Their egotistical mindset, focused on popularity, “coolness,” and all of these petty things, it drives me off the edge. And then when I try to be happy, they suck the joy out of me. I pursue my interests, and they call me a poser, they say I am trying to be someone I am not. I hang out with new friends, and they tell me I am being superficial and selfish. I do this, I do that, and it is always turned into a negative. Is it really so hard to let people express themselves, to let people flourish? What is it that is fogging your perception of happiness? Those drinks in your hands, those short skirts barley covering your ass, those boys chasing after you, do you really think that is what happiness is all about? Why can’t I just paint, read, dance, and meditate my days away in peace? What is the harm in letting me do what I want? I understand not everyone is like me, but that is what I like about it. I understand I do not fit into your social “norms,” but I do not criticize your interests (unless provoked, such as now). I don’t get why you think it is okay to make it harder for me to live the life I want to live. It has nothing to do with you, so get the fuck out of my way.
I am so tired of it here. This town, this school. I have spent my entire adolescence with the same 130 kids who are in my grade, and that is too much. I want to just up and leave. Go west. Go to New Mexico, Arizona, California, Washington. I want to bask in the shadows of the sequoia trees. I want to howl with the coyotes and sleep under the cacti in the desert. I want to be happy. And yet, somehow, it is an impossible dream for me to reach. 
 I can’t leave yet, it wouldn’t be “acceptable” to break off from society, to leave high school, to go off on my own. I have been crushed and molded into some sick stereotype of what is acceptable to do. Go to high school, go to college, get a job, get married, have kids. Only if I follow that formula, only then, says society, only then can I reach happiness. I give up, society. If that is what happiness is to you, I do not want any of it. 
I don’t want your disgusting version of “perfection.” I am done with you controlling my life. Telling me I have to look a certain way to be beautiful, telling me I have to think a certain way to be smart, telling me I have to follow certain rules to be “good.” 
I am done. I am done following your rules. I am done doing your work. I am done looking the part; acting the part; BEING the part. It is time for me to experience the world. Me. Not the “me” you created and conditioned to live a robotic life, but the real me. The one who has been banging at the doors of existence, just waiting to be given the key.  I am going to go out into this world in the way that I think is right, and for the first time, I can truly say I do not care what you think about that.  Because, society, if you make me so miserable, why would I ever want your respect anyway?

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